Ever since my break up, I have been lost. During my time of being lost, walking down a road I’ve never walked down before… I have been finding myself. Every now and then, I’ll find myself just like finding a flower in the cracks of a concrete. I’m learning new things about myself, and I’m changing. I can feel myself growing up, and in just a short four months I’ve seen changes in me. I’m not the same girl I was the night I broke up with my ex. That night, that day has changed my life forever. It was the day I broke free and learned to live without doubting every single thing I do. I find myself living a lot more, with a lot less worry. I don’t care so much what people say about me anymore. I do things that I want to do, even if I never thought I would be doing them.
It seems as though things in a relationship that used to be bug me, don’t anymore.
It seems as though I’m living life the way I want to be living it.
Though, there has been something on my mind.
“Once a cheater, always a cheater”
Is this true?
More than anything, would I ever date a guy who has cheated in the past?
I’ve been somewhat, on both sides of this. A guy used me, and then told me he had a girlfriend that I didn’t know about. I got so mad at him.
And truthfully, the night I broke up with my ex… I had kissed army boy before I did it, but right after I got home I broke up with him because I wasn’t happy in the relationship.
I get it, if a guy has cheated habitually in the past with more than one relationship, I would run the other direction. But I’ve been thinking lately. If a guy has cheated once, admits to it, and feels bad about it… does that mean he’s going to do it again? Everybody makes mistakes. Maybe there was a reason and it was a moment of weakness and he broke up with her after doing it.
I used to be dead set on not wanting anything to do with any type of cheater, but now I’m not sure. I believe everybody has a story. If they did it just to have sex, I wouldn’t deem that okay. But if they had a legitimate reason, I’ll lend my ear and give it a reason.
With all the love in my body,